Saying sorry is not hard.
63How many times have you said sorry to someone?
Or how many times had someone said sorry to you ?
Actually saying sorry is not that difficult. Only some sour Joes made it hard due to arrogance or their lion's pride instilled in them.
But how do you feel after you said sorry?
Relieved? Happy that you had actually said sorry and proud of doing it?
How do you really feel when someone said sorry to you?
You definitely will feel relieved as if a big boulder had been removed from you. Or vice-versa.
How long will it take for you to apologize to someone?
Hours, days, weeks or even years. Yes it's true. I was one of them. It took me months to say sorry to someone whom I had argument with. It's quite a small matter but as we're humans with pride, it dragged on for months.
I accidentally met him at a seminar. I looked at him but he turned away. When I saw him that instant, I still had that anger towards him. He walked his way and I walked mine and we both listened to what the lecturer talked.
Co-incidentally at the end of the lecture, the speaker wanted all of us to shake hands with each other and give a hug. I was in an awkward situation.
Finally...when it's turn to face him, I stretched my hand first. He looked surprised but willingly shook my hand and gave each other a sincere hug.
We both felt like something heavy had been lifted up from our shoulders.
We became great friends since then.
And you know what? We are now together chasing our dreams in our world of entreptreneurship.
We helped each other during our struggle to achieve our dreams. Event though he was more successful than me, he was always ready to assist me and wanted me to succeed just like him.
You see.....because of ONE simple gestures like saying sorry to each other we can gain more than friendship.
I still wonder,if by today we're still sour against each other..I will not be what I am today. Taught to gain success by someone who was your enemy before.
So...no pain..no gain as they say. And saying sorry is not hard.
